”Then Abner and his men went on all that night through the plain, crossed over the Jordan, and went through all Bithron; and they came to Mahanaim. So Joab returned from pursuing Abner. And when he had gathered all the people together, there were missing of David’s servants nineteen men and Asahel. But the servants of David had struck down, of Benjamin and Abner’s men, three hundred and sixty men who died. Then they took up Asahel and buried him in his father’s tomb, which was in Bethlehem. And Joab and his men went all night, and they came to Hebron at daybreak.“ II Samuel 2:29-32 NKJV
”Now there was a long war between the house of Saul and the house of David. But David grew stronger and stronger, and the house of Saul grew weaker and weaker.“ II Samuel 3:1 NKJV
a. There were missing of David’s servants nineteen men and Asahel: 2 Samuel 2:17 told us Abner and the men of Israel were beaten before the servants of David, but this passage shows us just how badly they were beaten. Abner and the army of Ishbosheth lost 360 men to 20 in the army of David.
b. There was a long war between the house of Saul and the house of David: This shows how wrong it was for Joab to accept Abner’s appeal for a cease-fire at the battle of The Field of Sharp Swords. The fact was that they couldn’t just get along, and that there could be no peace between the rightful king, David, and the pretender to the throne, Ishbosheth. The cease-fire seemed to make things better, but in reality, it only made things worse and it led to a long war.
i. When we try to make peace between King Jesus and king self within us, the result is a long, bitter war. It is so much better to simply surrender and submit to the reign of Jesus.
ii. “In the lives of many Christian people today there is raging, literally, a civil war. The flesh - the kingdom of Saul, struggles with the spirit - the kingdom of David, and the conflict is bitter. We do everything we possibly can to hold up the tottering kingdom of self, so that it might exist just a bit longer. If only we could preserve some rights; if only we could have at least part of our own way; if only we could keep this or that at any cost! We feel we must bolster up this kingdom of self, that we cannot let ourselves be crucified with Christ.” (Redpath)
c. David grew stronger and stronger: The increasing strength of David and increasing weakness of Saul’s house did not begin when Saul died. It began when God first chose David and withdrew His Spirit from Saul (1 Samuel 16:13-14). (Guzik)
Civil War, the Flesh verses the Spirit
Joab and Abner gave peace a chance but it didn’t work because Ishbosheth wanted to be king over God’s anointed king, David.
My wife and I lead a twelve step program at our church called the Life Recovery Bible Group and it’s for anyone with hurts, hang ups and habits.
Step 3 is “We made a decision to turn our wills and our lives over to the care of God.”
Our civil war is the flesh verses the Spirit which are constantly at war within us and Paul struggled with this too!
”For the good that I will to do, I do not do; but the evil I will not to do, that I practice.“ Romans 7:19 NKJV
Surrendering our will to Jesus is a big step in healing and allowing the Holy Spirit to work in us to remake us into the image of Jesus Christ.
It is said that Jesus is the potter and we are the clay.
Are you allowing the Potter to reshape you into His image?
Blessings